I’m starting to understand that all my addictions stem back to one thing. My lack of self love and self worth. I can now also see how codependency is my main addiction. It’s the addiction controlling all the other addictions. All the anxiety and worry about not being loved, not perfect enough, not good enough…
Codependency
Emancipating from my parents to get clarity
I hit “post” and the tears just flowed out of me. The guilt. The fear. The years of shame. I was sitting in the shade at an outdoor table at CROP and for the first time ever, I didn’t care what people thought of me. I let the tears come and I released all that…
The art of saying no, so you can say hell yes to things you really want to do
The art of saying NO… I’m starting to realize that even though I’ve obviously used the word “no” many times in the past, it was always riddled with guilt. How did it make the other person feel? I just couldn’t stand thinking that they were upset with me. Should I call them and tell them…
Journey to self love and compassion – Codependency
Codependency – I had never heard the word before. So, I reached the next layer in my onion of self-discovery. What for now even feels like the core. The answer to all my questions. The missing link. A friend recommended that I listen to “The Power of Vulnerability” by Brené Brown, and it absolutely changed…